The New Normal
We had gotten used to an amount of “you won’t believe this” realities and planning our life around Audrey’s needs. … More The New Normal
We had gotten used to an amount of “you won’t believe this” realities and planning our life around Audrey’s needs. … More The New Normal
He knows he is pretending. Audrey can’t tell fantasy from reality. … More Living in a Fictional World
Maybe that cozy, sunshine-filled room in her mind where the notion of grand-kids existed is no longer accessible. … More Something Weird About Mamaw
She told me how little I do for her, how I’m mistreating her, and how I’m the devil. Then, “You’re gonna miss me when I’m gone!” … More You’re Gonna Miss Me When I’m Gone
I need time without having to monitor my relativity to another human. That’s tough when another human stares at you every waking minute of your life. … More Introvert under Surveillance
“Is she cutting her hair while it’s dirty? Is that easier? Why didn’t she wash it first?”
“She wouldn’t let her wash her hair,” said my stylist. … More Sneaking in a Shampoo
If this blog helps someone else understand dementia and caregiver life, if it helps them feel like they are not alone, then I believe it’s valuable and I’ll keep at it. … More Caregiver Struggles
The Caregiver Support Group said it would be good for me to keep a journal. Here is my latest entry: My Caregiver Life It’s the most underrated job and yet the most intensely compassionate job I can imagine. She says I don’t do anything all day, yet I am 100% present and engaged as her … More Nicky’s Journal
The bed was cold when I woke up. I realized it was a twin bed instead of my queen-sized bed. That was puzzling. The room looked normal with two chairs and a dresser. I sat up on my elbow and slowly swung my legs over the side. My feet touched the cold tile floor that … More Mrs. Huntington: Groundhog Day